Water is very patient. Rain hits the earth. It has no concept of time. It just rains. Then finally, the earth holding the boulder breaks free and is gone.
Rain, even in small amounts, is very patient. Eventually, it gets its way. Wind will not do it. Steel is too violent a method.
As Sifu Lee once said, "Be like water my friend”. In your everyday life, don't try to change a problem, situation, or bad habit as quickly as chopping off your arm.
Be like water. A little at a time. Eventually, you'll get your way." Of course you have to be like WATER, not fire, and only think you're water.
Take the time to watch the water on your window, see how it moves stuck leaves.
Study it. Become like water.
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